Have you experienced being betrayed by someone? Or have you betrayed someone? What will you do if you are in a situation wherein you see that someone is being betrayed? Well me, im caught up in a situation now wherein i knwo someone who betrays a friend. But what is betrayal after all?

     Betrayal, a form of deception or dismissal of prior presumptions, is the breaking or violation of a presumptive social contract (trust, or confidence) that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals, between organizations or between individuals and organizations. Often betrayal is the act of supporting a rival group, or it is a complete break from previously decided upon or presumed norms by one party from the other.

     Im so confused if i did the right thing of telling a friends wife about what i have observed. But i didnt actually say anything bad or make up a story, it was just about what i have observed. And when i told her, i found out that its not only me who can observe something between her husband and a friend. Her friends tell her that they saw her husband and the girl, even her husbands sister told her what she observed. After informing her about all the observations, i found out that the three of them had confrontation. And everything was clear. But this friend textd me and tells me things like i won and that shes not guilty, she even made an issue about me and the wifes guy. She told me that she knows i like her guy even if i have the guys brother already. So pathetic, how could i love my boyfriends brother when in fact i love my boyfriend so much? Silly girl, if she's not guilty why would she send sms such as those.

     Oh well, atleast me im happy that everything is clear. Some friends say that its time for the wife to know, and if the assumptions arent true, well atleast they have talked and had a cnfrontation. I am a friend of the guys wife, i would not tollerate such a thing. Its very foul for the wife and their child if those observations me and some friends saw were true. so since they have talked and since the girl told the guys wife that there is nothing going on between them then its done!  Important thing is everything that it has ended and its all clear.

     But why would this girl react and send sms like those? Girl, you reacted, so you prove all we assumed and all we observed right! then you are guilty! I want this to be clear for the both of us too. i want to talk to you personally instead of talking through text!

     we asked, we gave advice, we warned you, you said theres nothing going on but what you say is diffrent from what you show. you leave questions in our minds, so i had to tell her for her to know. since u have talked and everything was clear why would you get angry at me and why would you react so arrogantly. Dont make issues of me, instead clean up your mess anderase your own issue!

     I hate having enemies, youve been a good friend. We all just want things clear. If someone has to be angry with me well its not you but the wifes husband for i havent talked to him first before informing his wife. but to you, im sorry i dont need to explain to you! If only you listened to us. You should have avoid it.